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We feel it's our social responsibility to protect : women, children & others from abuse and to help spread mutual respect to all of us! Please read all seven pages. Protect Yourself Against Abuse Go to next page on abuse If there are any abusive habits whatsoever present, understand that you're in danger in one way or another. There are a lot of signs present early in an abusive situations that many people ignore. Anger doesn't come from somebody else, it comes from within yourselves. It’s someone’s internal reaction to something, based on internal perspectives, that causes anger. He (abuser) incorrectly blames the victim for his own anger! If someone makes you feel bad, degrades you, abuses you in any way-- realize it will happen again; it will only get worse later (not get better, as most try to believe)! If you're being attacked, defend yourself to get free, then get away (which includes defensive attacks). Don't stick around and remain in dangerous situations! Get away and especially don't get angry and lose your head! Denial runs very deep in abusers (and in society), but is also surprisingly present in the victims too. There are many people out there that think they are not really victims. Anyone (male or female) that tries to control anybody by being dishonest, demeaning, deceptive, violent and inhuman is being abusive. Don’t put up with abuse, just walk away from it. Once you walk away, don’t get pulled back into it emotionally. Abusers are responsible for their own actions! How can you empower the abuser? 1-By believing that he won't do it again (male abusing female), and/or by believing that he truly loves you! Love isn’t shown by abuse! 2-By believing that he didn’t mean it, and/or by believing that you can handle it (all the time)? 3-By believing you're not in any danger! 4-By believing that you have to put up with it for the kids' sake. 5-Also, by getting into a power struggle with the abuser (free yourself from it). —–In all of these ways, you can empower any abuser! Empowerment, denial, and fear are some of the most difficult problems the victims need to deal with. Empowered the abuser, your own denial, as well as your own fears -causes you not to be in control of your own life. Stop letting abusers victimize you and starting taking control! I pray that all victims will someday be able to love themselves. I disavow any and all legal responsibilities for the abuse caused by others. If in danger contact the police. ~Written by- Richard Giroux Go to next page on abuse Next pages.....Reality & Truths Communication Reason For Actions Problems Therapy Power & Control
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